Remarriage

I know I have mentioned before about my friend that is getting remarried and moving. She has 3 kids from her first marriage and she rarely gets to see them. She will be getting remarried in about 2 months and leaving the country. He has told her he will allow her to come home some and see them, but she doesn't know how often or even if he will keep his word. He has promised her great things and seems to have money to take care of her better then her brother can; however she even says she will not know the truth, what he is really like until they are married. She tells me she wants to get remarried, but i'm not sure if it is because she likes him or if it is only because what being single is like here. The surprising and good thing is apparently her brother let her meet him and make this decision to remarry (her father is dead, or it would be his decision.) The strange thing to me, as we talked was her fear of divorcing again. Even though the first divorce was not what she wanted, she in some ways gets the "blame." She kept telling me the other day that she is so afraid of him divorcing her, she said "i just can't get divorced twice." She is worried that he won't treat her good, but that is not her big concern. My heart broke for her that her biggest fear would be being disgraced, again; instead of being mistreated for the rest of her life.